I've had 14 cats over the past 29 years, including the seven I live with now (it's so nice of them to allow me to live in their house!). Cat's ROCK!
Merc, you're never going to forget Ceasar, or get over the fact that he's gone, but that's a good thing. You will grow to accept his passing, but the fact that he meant so much to you is the reason you will never forget him. Hercules will fill your life with new joy and fun, and will ease the pain that accompanies your thoughts of Ceasar. Over time, it will become easier. I'm really very happy that Hercules is now in your life. I know he will help you get through this like only a true, longtime friend could, even though he's really a rookie. That paradox will then create a wonderful new bond as well.
I truly feel your pain, Merc, but I also sense your newfound joy, and am very happy for you. Cat's absolutely rule.
Here's a page of pics of my
current kids.
Take care,
-Chris