Oh I understand Cyber...I feel the same way about the intial attraction. I just was taken aback by him posting a racy pic and being like; 'LOOK WHAT I'M DATING!'
I've tried to date a "nice guy" that I wasn't attracted to..whew, BAD IDEA

Sexy looks are grrrrrrrreat - don't get me wrong, but I was just saying its not the ONLY thing.