[Mustangmom2k]

OMG, Marty! I've been away from the board too, (took an online weekend writing workshop that had me hopping), so when I came back today and scanned the threads, yours was the one I jumped on first!

I just had surgery myself Dec. 3 to remove several lumps, but mine were benign. I know how scared I was, not just of possible cancer, but I'm terrified of needles and knives, etc., so I know EXACTLY how you guys feel!

The name of the game is catching this crap early so the doctors can do something. Sounds like that's what Odie's situation is, so as mentioned before, have a little faith. Also, there really isn't much you can say, so don't beat yourself up trying to solve everything. My sweet husband was with me before and as I woke up from my surgery, and just knowing that really did help me. I knew he couldn't do any more for me, and Odie knows you can't do anything for her but be there. So you're doing the right and best thing by just being there for her.

You need to be confident (for her sake) even if you have to fake it. I know that's probably easier said than done since you're maybe just as scared as she is. I'll pray for you guys, and please give Odie my regards and well-wishes. Take care of yourself, too, Marty...that's an order!