We keep finding out different things, and the more we find out, I told john last night..Dude, your son is sick. He needs help, and if you think he can deal with htis, you are dead wrong. Do him a favor, and don't try to get him out.
I did not ever think it had gone as far as it did. No, let me rephrase that...I never dreamed it could ever have escallated to the point it has gotten to. I am hurting for John, seeing him struggle with the facts, that his son is in serious trouble, and not being able to help. But he also said what he did was inexcusable and wrong, so let the punishment fit the crime.

I see him struggle and try to come to terms with this whole catastrophe.
Some things are better left alone. Sad but true.
Thanks all... L8R