Ok, I like the lights and the system.
Now I'm gonna be my normal, rude. crude, socially unacceptable self

. I'm gonna go further that 6T9 Pony and say that the rear bumper and especilly the wing are flat out ricey. Just my opinion, it's your car, do what ever you want to it. Please don't get mad.
As for rims, I'd look into a set of Steada 18's.