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Originally posted by Mr 5 0
Without commenting on any specific member, I would note that there is a very fine line between blunt and rude. Usually, if one avoids name-calling and character assassination and sticks to facts, blunt honesty is fine.
Once words like 'stupid' are used to characterize another's position or comments, you've slid into 'rude territory' and any hope of convincing anyone of anything is pretty well gone, then, as all you'll get back is defensiveness and flaming.
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I totally agree, except I've noticed that as Rick stated, most people are not used to a blunt response, so they flame regardless of inital insults or not.
I do respect that everyone is different, so I've tried to tone down my posts a bit, (the tone, not the content
) No hard feelings R, I know you weren't insulting me , and you know I appreciate your input!
Belle