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Originally posted by 1969Mach1
And trust me I do put alot of my time into my relationship. I work around the clock keeping this relationship alive.
I know it's hard to grasp the concept, but imagin you have a g/f or even if you want to take your wife. Put it like this, she has a guy friend at work. She tells him Your really sexxy and hot and yummy (she uses the word yummy?!?!) and you stumble appon this and inform her of it and she tells you it's nothing.
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One question...WHY?
This girl willingly entered into a committed relationship with you, yet thinks it ok to make lewd comments about other dudes...that's not even the worst part. She did ALL that, KNOWING the type of person you are, and how it would make you feel.
Then, when stuff is worked out, she continues to talk to this guy, and fib about it to you. Yeah, really sounds like someone worth fighting for
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NO ONE who claims to "love you" should even put you in a position that you would have to "fight" for them.
I always have to hear about how "nice guys get screwed over" and "chicks suck" but more and more I find that the same guys that piss and moan about women, tend to be matched up with ones that use them as doormats! You seem like a great guy Sam...can you see yourself doing to her what she has put you through? If the answer is no (which I bet it is), I can't really see why you ended up back with this woman, except for the reason of so-called love. A rewarding relationship that is good for both people involved shouldn't need round the clock maintenance. Its up to BOTH of you (not just you) to make it work, and make it last.