Actually, either you are dating women that care about nothing than your phyisque (shallow) or by building your "muscles", you gained confidence in yourself...which is what is TRULY attractive to women, not the bulk of your flesh
Many women nowadays (as I'm sure most of you men know) are pretty insecure, and are always complaining about "wah, Im fat", "whine, Im ugly" etc etc. To find a man that perhaps we can learn to be confident from is a real find. Hell, even men find women that are more confident more attractive, even if they aren't as attractive as the girl next to them who is meek and insecure. I mean, the LAST thing a chick needs is a guy who whines as much as them
I can pretty much say for sure that you radiated more confidence with a better body (which is natural) and that is probably what really attracted the chicks in the end.
BTW: Most people on Mustangworks aren't easily offended, and we can pretty much speak freely without having to worry about "PCness" overrunning our boards
