I linked you guys over to the safehouse, another everquest message board. Its really sucks to see things like this happen, I wish you the best of luck in trying to get some compensation for this moron's "fun". Hopefully the sheer amount of attention has already helped.
Found the link at -
http://pub130.ezboard.com/beqasylum
Posted a link to this thread to -
http://pub117.ezboard.com/bthesafehouse