Well, like I said, that is MY opinion.
She was too wrapped up inherself . And it was just not the 'satisfying' part of it. And It does not necessarily mean just sex, when I say that she 'neglected' him. There are mental and emotional needs that need to be met. There is nothing worse than being in a long term relationship and they are not met. I do not mean just a couple of years either. And till the decision is made to finally leave, its a very difficult situation to be in, it is TORTUROUS!!!
. And it is miserable. Especially when youve been in the relationship for such a LONG TIME!
Like I said, thats what DIVORCE is for. She didn't let him live long enough to divorce her, if thats what he was gonna do, and yes, I was married and would have had my 16th anniversary last week. But I was miserable for the last 11 years of my marriage. So Yes, I think I can say Ive been in a long term relationship where there was devastating problems...it was not cheating, but one can be devastated emotionally as well. To be constantly belittled and talked down to IMO can be as devastating as the other.
I'm sorry I irk you.
And I was not 'justifying' his cheating on her. He was just lucky enough to find someone that also met his 'emotional' needs as well. I'm just sorry that they never had the chance to make it work.
TNT