[Topless In Texas]

I agree w/ you to some extent about he shouldve done this or that, but that makes no difference at this point...
I will also say it AGAIN...till you HAVE been in a marriage for a long time ; there are alot of factors involved you have NO idea how hard a situation is like this, weather it involves another person or not, or just the emotional anquish lived day to day ...Its not a decision that you can just wake up one day and say, "okay, I will get my divorce today." It does not work that way.
I am not looking at this from a completely 'sexual' standpoint. Quite the contrary. I guess thats where our opinions differ. I am looking at it from the 'emotional' standpoint. Sex is secondary. Point being, he found in another woman the emotional support and the 'approval' he did not have w/ his wife, weather he was looking for it or not. She worked for him, and I'm sure that it was something that grew in time weather they were wanting it or not. Yes, he should have dumped his wife first, I agree. But it did not happen that way. and I am not validating anything...I am just letting you see it from another standpoint instead of just making it look like its all about sex. It is not always centered around sex.
Anyways....what pisses me off too is how her friends keep saying, 'she wont be able to live w/out her children'...well big DUH!!!! She should have though about that TOO before she threw the BMW into gear!!!! He was wrong for not dumping her first, SHE was WAYYYY wrong for killing him...People survive divorce every day, and kids come out very healthy, I know mine has and very happy...
The kids could have been okay in the longrun, after all was said and done and if he left her, or stayed w/ her and dumped his girlfriend. Either way.
Murder is something else. She brought on a pain by her actions that will affect them for the rest of thier lives. so, with that....
Im done for now...I gotta get my day started and get off this computer.
TNT