I don't know what all your guy's problems is I dance just fine, in fact, I...oh wait...u mean with music and ppl around... oh screw that
I can somewhat dance, but not with another person unless it slow dancing. My ryhem is so off from others, I might as well be shaking bugs off me, looks the same. Ray from "Everybody Loves Raymond" put it best, "When I'm dancing, I look like I looking for my keys"(pat pat pat). Try it, it's funny.
I've only had the same problem when I went to clubs, u know dance halls or what ever. Back in Middle school, my Mom made me go to those things, Only danced once, slow dance. It's the only thing I can do, and even it's not very well.