[rsampson]

It sounds like this guy is crazy. He wants to do all that just to get you to sign some piece of paper. From a guys point of view, it sounds like he wants out and is using anything as an excuse to get away from you. It sounds as if this guy doesn't care about you or the marriage. If that paper was that important, he should have got you to sign it before the marriage. Move on and be glad. So does that make you single now and in need of a hug? It will get better.