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Originally posted by mustardjohn
It will end when you want it to. You are the only one who can control your emotions. When you choose to give that control to someone else, it will end when they want it to. Take back control of yourself and end it or amit that you don't want it to end.
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You are right on the fact that it will end when I want it to. To me, the first step is seeing him for the person he is. I am just having a hard time with the fact that I waited so long to get married for it to only last just a few short months. I know in the end I will be glad that it did and that I have moved on with my life with some guy who is the one for me and treats me the way I deserve. I know now that if I meet someone who drinks and is into money way to much, to run. My husband puts a money value on everything. He saids I married for money. I look around at my place and I don't see alot of what he bought me. I see things that I had before the marriage or things I purchase with my money or I put on my credit card. The point I am trying to make is my, not his. He has to find something wrong with me that helps his conscious for bailing on this marriage. I am on my way to taking back control. It just takes me awhile to get over the hurt. I have never been the type to turn feelings on and off. I have promise myself to not pine over him for so long. It is wasted time. Like I said, the first part is saying, I have no interest in him for the way he has treated me. He is not a nice person. Thanks for your reply. It is welcome.