dhg4489,
I took both the 98 V-6 and the 03 GT to my local Highway Patrol office and sought their expertise. LOL.... The baby was left at home with PaPa. But they had some excellent suggestions (save one nice man told me to get rid of the Stang and get a family sedan.. uh huh... LOL)..
Good Luck...I know it is tough. Now my little man is 7 and the 05 Stang actually weighs the passanger and automatically turns off the SRS.

Ahhh, technology at it's best.
Jennifer