Agreed. No sense in chasing a relationship if there isn't one there. Any relationship is only as strong as it's weakest link. According to what you've said, that's her, and no matter how strong your link, it's still gonna break where it connects to her's when stress mounts. Doesn't sound like she's ready to commit to anything you want, but maybe she's holding on a little 'cause she doesn't want to be in the dating scene either. Sounds like she just wants some one to keep her company while she looks for Mr. Right to me. Unfortunately, that means you're not him, at least right now you're not.
Two people coming from different angles looking ror two completely different relationships usually fight a lot, at least that's my experiance. Sometimes they get along real good too, when they are both looking for the same thing for the moment. Kinda like trying to tune an old snowmobile. You spend all day to get one good run before the temp changes. When it's working good, it's great, but it's hardly ever working good. Move on and find yourself a newer sled that you don't have to work on as much, cause as much fun as it is to have it that "every once and a while," a sled that you don't have to work on is way more fun to ride.
Good luck with whatever you choose.
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