I would rather live alone than be in a relationship with constant friction. I would also rather live alone than be in a relationship where I did all the work. Or where I was constantly apologizing because the arguements/fights were *always my fault, never her's*
How can I say this??? Because I have been in both types of relationships/marriages.
We all have 20/20 hindsight. Sometimes it is a shame how long it takes us to see the wrongness and bail out.
If a relationship feels wrong, it is. If you{man or woman}are feeling manipulated, you probably are. I'll say it again. Life is too short to put up with constant conflict.
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