Mercury, you seem cool as hell, but I'm going to be blunt here.
Stop complaining if you aren't going to do anything about it.
You=Nice Guy
Nice Guy=Deserves to be Happy (following me so far??)
Be Happy=No Arguing
No Arguing=DUMP THE NAGGING BAGGAGE!!!!!!
If you do all these nice things for her, and she still does the irritating as **** girly double standard thing (screwed if you do and screwed if you don't) then give her the boot.
It pisses me off to see people treated that way and hang around, but then get upset about it. There is someone out there that will not only appreciate everything you do for her, but DO THINGS FOR YOU TOO instead of squawking and being unhappy when you inquire as to her mood.
I've been in relationships before that I cared about the person very much, but the differences in personality was not worth it. We argued too much, and it ruined our relationship. Subsequently, we are VERY good friends, and never fight at all
Sometimes you just have to figure out what's best for YOU.
Good Luck. I hope you can either work it out with no more arguing, or find out that you are better off on your own.
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