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Skyman · 06-11-2001, 02:27 PM

I can't say how much I appreciate all the great and meaningful responces guys. You are all awesome.

Mercury, I can relate so much to the position you are in.

She liked my car, then when it occupied to much time she didnt like it. I used to play basketball a lot, and she said she liked it untill it took up too much time and in a fit she was throwing she was yelling how much she hated basketball.

Then she says, If I really loved her I would have found time around my work. I tried to, but after so was so mean about it, I got bitter to and didn't want to find time anymore, cuz she was just negative bout my work. Also about 6 months ago I was living about 350miles from here, and I was all alone at a new job and life. And I wanted her to come visit. I was rather depressed where I was living. She wouldn't come though, because her parents wouldn't let her. They wouldn't allow her to go spend a few overnights w/ me. That pissed me off. I thought if you really loved someone you would go no matter what. I know if I was in her spot I would have. And she wouldn't understand that.

Maybe I havn't been firm enough with her now. As she had been really bossy coming upto this also. Telling me how to cook things, when to change my tooth brush, how to do stuff. She said she just cared for me and was tryin to help me. But when you say your fine how you are and they wont accept that, and try to force their ways on you, it just pushes you away.

After all this and this negativity towards what I am doing, and the controlling I've become kind of numb. Maybe just because Im so busy workin, and thats my focus and its kept my mind off things. But its really made me not want to be around her right now. Not that I don't like her. I just dont want the responsibility of having to spend time with her. I think things could work out for us in the future, but maybe a break now would be best, and just continue to be freinds...

I hate stuff like this... But mercury I completely feel almost like the same thing you wrote...

Thanks again to everyone for the replys..

Skyler

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-1989 Saleen Mustang #406- TFS Heads, E-303, edelbrock intake,70MM TB, 73mm MAF, off road H, headers and 3chamber flows.
12.55@107mph
50-175 Nitrous Works WET Kit just added.

06-11-2001, 02:27 PM	#13
Skyman I need 110mph Trap Speed! Join Date: Feb 1999 Location: So, CA Posts: 4,315	I can't say how much I appreciate all the great and meaningful responces guys. You are all awesome. Mercury, I can relate so much to the position you are in. She liked my car, then when it occupied to much time she didnt like it. I used to play basketball a lot, and she said she liked it untill it took up too much time and in a fit she was throwing she was yelling how much she hated basketball. Then she says, If I really loved her I would have found time around my work. I tried to, but after so was so mean about it, I got bitter to and didn't want to find time anymore, cuz she was just negative bout my work. Also about 6 months ago I was living about 350miles from here, and I was all alone at a new job and life. And I wanted her to come visit. I was rather depressed where I was living. She wouldn't come though, because her parents wouldn't let her. They wouldn't allow her to go spend a few overnights w/ me. That pissed me off. I thought if you really loved someone you would go no matter what. I know if I was in her spot I would have. And she wouldn't understand that. Maybe I havn't been firm enough with her now. As she had been really bossy coming upto this also. Telling me how to cook things, when to change my tooth brush, how to do stuff. She said she just cared for me and was tryin to help me. But when you say your fine how you are and they wont accept that, and try to force their ways on you, it just pushes you away. After all this and this negativity towards what I am doing, and the controlling I've become kind of numb. Maybe just because Im so busy workin, and thats my focus and its kept my mind off things. But its really made me not want to be around her right now. Not that I don't like her. I just dont want the responsibility of having to spend time with her. I think things could work out for us in the future, but maybe a break now would be best, and just continue to be freinds... I hate stuff like this... But mercury I completely feel almost like the same thing you wrote... Thanks again to everyone for the replys.. Skyler ------------------ -1989 Saleen Mustang #406- TFS Heads, E-303, edelbrock intake,70MM TB, 73mm MAF, off road H, headers and 3chamber flows. 12.55@107mph 50-175 Nitrous Works WET Kit just added.