Mustangguy, I wish i knew your name.
I can empathise(sp) with you totally. I was in a hole just like yours, and i'm sure a lot of the others here were and still are also. Just take a step back and reevaluate the world for a minute. You are down, your girl is playing games, and you can't work on your car. There might be some more problems, but i don't know. These are not that serious, in fact they are pretty minor. You are just in a slump. I agree with Mr. 5.0 totally. Take a vacation by yourself, forget all the worries of life for a while and try to see the big picture. There is a whole world out there and every thing it offers IS within your reach if you only want it and will make it yours! Being stuck in the same place your whole life, or a large part of it, can really deplete your sense of self worth and adventure. Maby you should think about a carreer change, or moving somewhere different. Get out and enjoy life and the world. If you believe in your self and have confidence some lucky girl willnotice you and realize what a great guy you are. It will all fall into place and before you know it you will be on top of the world and be truly open and free. It has taken me years to figure this out. And i just live life tthe way I want it to be. I don't place rules and restrictions opn myself, i do what i feel, be spontanious, different. Don't let yourself get caught up in the rat race, be jimmy buffet. The world is yours, go get it. I hope this makes some sense. Good luck in whatever you choose. And remember, you always have a HUGE family here at the works. Take care. Jonathan
[This message has been edited by NoSlow5.0 (edited 07-08-2001).]
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