Merc-
I'm sure you were a perfect gentleman, I'm not getting on you for that. i'm actually kind of blown away (pun not intended) by the way this thread degenerated her to the point of pond scum without really knowing anything. if she was that bad, you wouldn't have picked her up, or waited for her at her friends,. or mentioned a dozen times that she was attractive. Your posts about your troubles recently hurt me too. my disater was an 8 year relationship with the woman I knew I was going to grow old with. Problem was, she didn't feel the same way. i should have left after 2 years, but I didn't. I wanted to believe her, so I did. Looking back brings anger and resentment, but I'd still phuk her today (38dd's and hair past her waist). Anyway, last night was a great chance for you to take that first step outside of this cocoon your in. I want to see you succeed. I also know phukked up neighborhoods and dope fiends. believe it or not, they're not all trash. But I'm not even going to try and defend them, but it kills me to hear the beer brigade criticzing someone who may choose to feel better about themselves with a different, quite possibly safer drug than alcohol (ever hear of someone ODing on weed?).
Anyway, I just thought it was really sad how everyone turned her into trash, while patting you on the back for missing a great opportunity. I don't think any less of you for doing what you felt was right, Merc, I just want to see you heal.
Unit, give me a break. Neither life nor the people in it are as one sided as your angle on this thread was. That's your right. I guess I just never saw that side of you before.
Take care,
-Chris
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