[Mr 5 0]

Mercury:

I wouldn't worry too much about the girlfriend lurking.

It sounds as if she's got one foot out the door of your 'relationship' (I hate that word) and the other about one halfway there. Not much to lose.

I doubt she's too concerned with anything you might post here, other than a perfectly normal curiosity about what you're saying about her - good or bad. If you knew that she was posting messages on some other website and you thought she was talking about you wouldn't you be interested to know what she's saying? I would.

Whether or not she'll use something you post against you is most likely not a problem, as it seems as if she finds plenty of reasons to not want to continue seeing you and a post here would only be another in what appears to be a long list of complaints this girl has. At least that's my impression based on what you've said about your trials and tribulations with this girl. If that perception is wrong, I'm sorry, but it seems as if you're breaking up or about to break up most of the time. I have to wonder; do you guys ever have any fun together? Doesn't sound like it.

The other day somebody asked me if I ever watch 'soap operas' on TV. I said "No, I don't have to, I just read the messages on Mustang Works 'open' forum and I get all the interpersonal 'relationship' angst that I can use".
Some of the situations remind me of when I was dating and going through the same crazyness from time to time. Glad that's over.

Hey Merc, I really hope it all works out for you but I wouldn't be concerned about posting here. You can be honest but just don't post any really nasty stuff or lies about her and you 'll never have to worry.