Argh. My Ex Gf Wont Let It Go!

Unit 5302 · 02-23-2002, 06:35 PM

Well, you need to cut the stings with the ex completely. I really doubt Marya will have any serious issues with you having an ex. Almost everybody does have one somewhere. An Ex that you're still talking to and crying over is an altogether different story. That's been a big issue in a few relationships I've seen get nasty.

If you do decide to keep your ex in your life (which I don't recommend), you need to tell her straight up that you're not gonna get into that old conversation junk anymore. As brutal as it sounds, it needs to be that way. It'll save a lot of heartache and questions later.

If you're with Marya, then you're with her. Bee should be of no concern. If you want to go out with Bee, then go for it. You'd best let Marya know that you don't want to be serious. I have gathered from your previous posts that she has reservations (mostly time) about being serious with you as it is anyway. Also, if you do decide to see Bee, there will be no end to the drama coming your way. If you have no desire to see Bee, you had better make that clear as well.

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02-23-2002, 06:35 PM	#9
Unit 5302 Registered Member Join Date: May 1999 Posts: 5,246	Well, you need to cut the stings with the ex completely. I really doubt Marya will have any serious issues with you having an ex. Almost everybody does have one somewhere. An Ex that you're still talking to and crying over is an altogether different story. That's been a big issue in a few relationships I've seen get nasty. If you do decide to keep your ex in your life (which I don't recommend), you need to tell her straight up that you're not gonna get into that old conversation junk anymore. As brutal as it sounds, it needs to be that way. It'll save a lot of heartache and questions later. If you're with Marya, then you're with her. Bee should be of no concern. If you want to go out with Bee, then go for it. You'd best let Marya know that you don't want to be serious. I have gathered from your previous posts that she has reservations (mostly time) about being serious with you as it is anyway. Also, if you do decide to see Bee, there will be no end to the drama coming your way. If you have no desire to see Bee, you had better make that clear as well.