why is it...

Sadly the bad out weigh the good. Not in my case, but I see it all the time. Women don't stop and look, they leap. Before they think. And so for them it's easier to get over it.
Now a guy seems to put his whole heart in a relationship before he knows weather the women is serious or not. And thats how they tend to get the short end of the stick.
So hang in there, and don't be in a hurry. The right girl or guy will come when you least expect it. Just my 2 cents Odie