Is it me? Or do you Guys have the same problem? (Girls can help me on this too)

[andy669]

My advice might not help you in your current situation, seeing as your girlfriend is only 14! In the future when you are dealing with this type of situation the worst thing you can do is try and talk about it. Wanting to talk about it all the time will only show her that you are insecure. (BIG TURNOFF) If you want her back, quit calling her! If she really wants to be with you she will call you! If she doesnt call you, sobeit. Its out of your hands by that time anyway. Why get upset over something you cant control. I hear women saying all the time that all they want is someone thats "nice" and someone who "treats them good". That is such crap! (for the most part) The best thing I've ever done for any of my relationships is act like I dont give a sh!t. Women want the same thing as men; a good challenge! Why do we go for the women who are somewhat out of our league? 'Cause its a good challenge! I call my current girlfriend about 1 time a month! Meanwhile she calls me about 3 or 4 times a day. Some people think I'm an a$$ for this, but its what keeps her around. Listen, I dont claim to have it all figured out. (if I did I'd be dating Pamela Lee!...lol...) This is just what I found I need to do. Good Luck!
andy