Is it wrong not to take your gf/bf to a party?

[Stang_Crazy]

Wow, I couldn't have asked for better advice. Everyone is providing very good points.

not some insecure, needy teen-age cheater who demands constant attention and lays down guilt trips when you leave her for an evening

Sadly, this is a perfect description of her. This weekend, I have to do some thinking by myself because for the first time, I have this feeling that she isn't "the one". It's just hard because this is my first serious relationship and it's hers too. She's all I have ever known and it's really hard to let that go.

Red514LX : You bring up a very good point about dating older women. It would be nice to have someone a little more mature.

I'll let everyone know how it went next week. I'll either be single or still attached. Thank you to everyone who has provided advise. Sometimes, a point doesn't get through my head unless I hear it from someone else.