Define . . . .

[Mustangbelle306]

Originally posted by Mr 5 0
I define cheating this way:

If you would be hurt or angry if your partner did it to another (touching, kissing, hugging, whatever) then it's obviously wrong for you to do the same to another.

Absolutely!!! Although many people probably wouldn't agree with me, I also consider some non-physical aspects cheating as well.

If you find yourself constantly fantasizing about being with other people instead of your partner, I feel that's not really nice, and something is probably wrong with the relationship...some people have "open" relationships in which that (and lots of other STUFF) is A ok. Others just think its cool to look at everything with legs and a heartbeat. Personally, I feel that if I'm committed to someone, and I'm not attracted/stimulated enough that I start looking at others, that's not a relationship worth contining .

I've always told my friends that marriage doesn't have to be the stereotypical death sentence. It can be the beginning of a WONDERFUL life as long as you've chosen the perfect partner !