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[mustardjohn]

Move on. The longer you dwell on it the more time is lost. Investigating all the little he said she saids is an energy drain you don't need. Make plans. Consider the future like what am I going to do next week. Before you know it 6 months is gone by and its a new world.

As for what marrage is or should be. It seems to take a lot of forms. It is not a set thing that can be judged moment to moment against some gold standard. Sure there are some basics but there seem to be more exceptions than rules IMO. Always a work in progress.