Why am I such a Glutton for Punishment

[VNAMUS in VA]

Merc:

Try to cheer up dude, theres someone out there for you, just be patient - have faith. It's an ugly world out there, and there are some ugly people out there you gotta watch out for...but on the flip side, there are wonderful, pure people who will love you for everything you are. When you find someone who's pure and loving, you'll know it.

My finance and I have been together for 9 years. We don't fight - period. There's no point. When you're in love with someone, you realize fighting sucks and it's just not worth the energy. I've been following your posts for a while, but only observing. The post I just read from you made me have to post a response. It doesn't have to be about who went where and who did this and that - bottom line is it doesn't matter when you find the right one.

eMail me if you want to talk...I know we don't know each other very well, but I really feel for you, Mercury. I know what's it like to be depressed...I was for a long time before I met my man.