Why am I such a Glutton for Punishment

[Five0]

Originally posted by pony_power_90
Havent had the urge to scratch in front of a window or what man?

Hahaha; I remember that post

Hey man, I will pass on some good advise that really helped me as soon as I realized that it really works and found a balance. "He who cares the least wins"
Have you ever noticed that you seem to always find more women that are interested in you when you are not looking?
I use to have problems with relationships in the since that the longest relationship I had been in was about a month and I did not date that much. I was always really good to whom ever I was dating "Maybe too good" and they never stayed interested.
A really good friend of mine told me to relax, do not go looking for it and it will find you.
I got to the point that I did not care one way or the other and it seems like that worked for me. All of a sudden I started getting more dates and they started staying around longer.
I had the same attitude with my wife and the longest relationship she was in was less than a month because she got tired of the person she was dating and lost interest, She still has guys that are in love with her and I think it is because she cared the least and we always seem to want what we can't have. I am not saying this always works but it works more times than not.

Anyway, my wife asked me out and I did not show much interest at first and it made her want me even more and even she will admit it. Damn man I did not mean to ramble on but I thought maybe it might help, I know it did for me. Good luck!