Is it me? Or do you Guys have the same problem? (Girls can help me on this too)

[6T9PONY]

EEEEEEK!!! Marraige.....ohhh.....scary.....

I know that before I get married I will have been with my partner for a very long time. And make D@MNED sure she is definitely the one.

I know that right now, I could not marry my girlfriend. There are just too many things that I can deal with now, that I couldn't when we lived together and spent 24 hours a day together.

I don't think I'll be able to even stay with my girlfriend when I leave for college. I'm just not into that whole distance thing, even if we trust eachother completely. I have to see her to feel right with her....

I'm not going to be able to handle a distance thing like that....we have talked about breaking up when I leave, and about staying together when I leave. We both realize what will most likely happen, but we both want to just live for the moment and have fun while we can. It's high school, time to have fun, time to do what you want to do, time to be with who you want to be with.

Sorry I got started on all that....I really start to ramble on and on when I start talking about stuff.....my bad.....

[429mustang]

Damn, I'm getting pissed thinking about your situation. I'm the same way, I don't try to control my girlfriends life and get jealous and whatnot. My last girlfriend started hanging out with other guyfriends, then she turned all stupid the last two months we were going out. It sucks being nice and doing what you think is right for other people, but sometimes other people aren't so dependable. You bet your *** it would be different if you started hanging out with a bunch of other girls. My girlfriend gets retarded if I even go on my one friends girlfriends yard, let alone hang out with her. It's cool, she's still friends with some of her ex-boyfriends and I never talk **** about it. It doesn't make sense but hey, it ain't easy. Anyway, I hope things work out for your situation.

[1969Mach1]

Yeh, back to the real situation. It's a damn if you do and a damn if ya don't. I don't want to control her life, but I don't want to loose her. So what do I do? I buy a 1969 Mustang Mach 1, build it up to a street demon. If I still got her by the end of my restore then I got my car and the girl. If I loose her I got a car to run of the guy who took her, and the car to find another girl. lol
Everyone tells me "You'll be able to pick up so many chicks in that car", man my car is my chick. =)

[andy669]

My advice might not help you in your current situation, seeing as your girlfriend is only 14! In the future when you are dealing with this type of situation the worst thing you can do is try and talk about it. Wanting to talk about it all the time will only show her that you are insecure. (BIG TURNOFF) If you want her back, quit calling her! If she really wants to be with you she will call you! If she doesnt call you, sobeit. Its out of your hands by that time anyway. Why get upset over something you cant control. I hear women saying all the time that all they want is someone thats "nice" and someone who "treats them good". That is such crap! (for the most part) The best thing I've ever done for any of my relationships is act like I dont give a sh!t. Women want the same thing as men; a good challenge! Why do we go for the women who are somewhat out of our league? 'Cause its a good challenge! I call my current girlfriend about 1 time a month! Meanwhile she calls me about 3 or 4 times a day. Some people think I'm an a$$ for this, but its what keeps her around. Listen, I dont claim to have it all figured out. (if I did I'd be dating Pamela Lee!...lol...) This is just what I found I need to do. Good Luck!
andy

[DemonGT]

i am a very jelous guy....just the way i am..i dont like my g/f's hangen with any guys at all..bothers me..just cause im a guy and i know how guys are..just thinken of her with some of her girl freinds and a few guys..those guys eyes are going to wonder some times....dont like it...not at all....

[Unit 5302]

Here's the bottom line. You have no idea who she will become, but I can pretty much guarantee she will be nothing like she is now in 2 years.

I've seen it I don't know how many times. The drivers license is the single biggest factor in growing up IMHO. She's going to completely change and you're hangin on. Maybe when all is said and done you'll find yourself with her, but unfortunately, it's very unlikely.

I'd cut her loose now before you get hurt more.

[1969Mach1]

See it's not the thing that I don't trust her. It's the thing I don't trust the guys, and who knows if she may like them alittle she may learn to like them more which will ruin our relationship. And I don't trust those guys, especially one guy, I hate him so much, everytime I think of him I get angry and go do pushups or do something to release anger. I could rave on about him and swear like a pirate for a hour how much I hate him. I've only met him once but my g/f talks about him every now and then but she is like he is a jerk and is so mean to me but they are good friends so there pretty much just flirting. Ohh... man I'm feeling this anger coming up. I like pretty much broke my knuckles one night, I read a email to a friend about him and I got so mad, my friend was there and there like you need a smoke and I'll never smoke I'm just flipped out on a mail box. (Big metal ones) I punched it about 5 times. I was so mad. If I ever see him, and he says one wrong word to me I'm probably going to go crazy on him. I never fight, you have to really piss me off but I can fight. I'm crazy, I'm not that big but I'm quick and I can take an extrem amount of pain, and if I'm mad I'll never go down unless you kill me. Ohh... well I'll see how it goes, but I'm not sure how long this is going to last. 5 months this Monday and then who knows, how much more. **** is getting thick. And yeh I know my chances of being with her for ever are pretty slim but I do care for her, just don't appreciate some of the stuff she does to me but alot of it I love.

Ohh... well damn if ya do and damn if ya don't.