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Originally posted by Mercury
I'm young, 25, I drive two shiny red sports cars, and I'm single. Why be depressed. For the longest time I have chased after one woman. I have endured, and shed many tears from arguements. I have feared bieng alone. Well, I'm going to let the women Chase me. And I'm going to enjoy every damn minute of it.
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Congrats dude... you just figured out what it takes most of us many more years to figure out ! Why do you think when you ask most any older guy, or girl for that matter, about their younger years and relationships, 99.999% of the time they'll say "Oh God if only i could go back knowing what i know now !!" lol
The less attention you pay to relationships a funny thing happens ... it gives you an air of self confidence and self assurance that the ladies sense. We know it shouldn't be that way but it goes back to that hunter gatherer thing and its a very strong instinct thats gonna take us another few thousand years to get over. The more self assured and desisive you become the more the ladies begin to pursue you instead of vice versa ... i know the women are gonna jump all over me for this but its a fact ... you grovel at a womans feet she will begin to look elsewhere ... why ? It goes back to that hunter gatherer instinct again ... she has you and she knows it (because of the groveling) so now her instincts dictate that she can go looking for another mate ... that way she has two mates and shes even more assured that she will be well fed and will be able to bare healthy young.
If you think its only whether your shirt goes perfectly with your pants or that every hair is in place then you will forever be the chasor and not the chasee .... don't believe me ? look at Mr. Hefner ? ... 70 years old ... hairs a mess... runs around in a goofy looking bathrobe and spends most evenings in the grotto under a naked pile of some of the most beautiful women on the planet !
Why ? self assurance, desisiveness, self confidence and power.
Enjoy your new found revelation while you can Mercury, cause once one of those females looks good enough to you that your hunter gatherer instinct takes over and you let her stamp your forehead "MATE" and then she gives birth to your young ... things get wayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy more complicated !! lol
Ok thats my old and wise lecture for the day
