What is Your Greatest Fear?

12-12-2001, 12:06 AM

Dude, I can see what is happening to you right now. If you wait around long enough this girl will break your heart. Whe likes this other guy and it is best if you tell her to f' off. Ok, she means alot to you.. would you hang out or be friends with a girl she totally hated? I really don't think you would be friends with someone she hated, you may be courteous to them (say hey or what not) but not friends. This girl doesn't care about how you feel, do you really want to be with someone that doesn't care about how you feel?? You have two options here, wait for it to happen to you and be miserable (you will feel rejected on top of the other resentment) or drop her ***, tell her to get lost and you will still feel bad but, she will also feel rejected and her boy will always be 2nd best because 'you' dumped 'her'. You will find someone else, if you aren't happy now... do you honestly think it will get better?? Letting go is the hardest part..

Side note: if you decide to drop her... make it a clean break. She will either find happiness with this other guy or she will be sooo concerned about you the other guy will be either a lost cause, give up, or she will plainly turn him away.

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12-12-2001, 12:06 AM	#31
rbatson Guest Posts: n/a	Dude, I can see what is happening to you right now. If you wait around long enough this girl will break your heart. Whe likes this other guy and it is best if you tell her to f' off. Ok, she means alot to you.. would you hang out or be friends with a girl she totally hated? I really don't think you would be friends with someone she hated, you may be courteous to them (say hey or what not) but not friends. This girl doesn't care about how you feel, do you really want to be with someone that doesn't care about how you feel?? You have two options here, wait for it to happen to you and be miserable (you will feel rejected on top of the other resentment) or drop her ***, tell her to get lost and you will still feel bad but, she will also feel rejected and her boy will always be 2nd best because 'you' dumped 'her'. You will find someone else, if you aren't happy now... do you honestly think it will get better?? Letting go is the hardest part.. Side note: if you decide to drop her... make it a clean break. She will either find happiness with this other guy or she will be sooo concerned about you the other guy will be either a lost cause, give up, or she will plainly turn him away.