"Your too nice" Is this BAD to be these days?

Hey Guys, did you ever think that maybe its the girl and not you. I have seen a lot of my girl friends pick the bad *** and then they want to cry on my shoulder why, how come, whatzup did I do something wrong, instead of them taking a good look in the mirror and saying lord whats up with me I AM THE DUMB *** for wanting to be with that guy. Myself I think its a great quality to find a Nice Guy and I am lucky enough to have one, so you guys keep up being yourself. That is one of the reasons I look and read so many posts is because I think you are a group of really cool nice guys.