"Your too nice" Is this BAD to be these days?

[mustangman65_79]

I'm Jealous of u MustangBelle. Your smart, seem to know just what to say. Why can't I find any women like u and Mustangmom2k. (yes I know u'd be too old for me Mom, but it's the thought.) Hear in Cali, it's seems like all the women hear just use me. The only women who I liked, I had to turn away from some reason. Right now there is a girl back home who'd I never have gone out with, always wanted to, but can't because I'm done here in Cali. She's up in Oregon. One thing I had more then being called nice, is being used. I think Mr 5 0 Summed this up pretty good.

Wow.....changed some of my thoughts Belle...thanx!

It too changed some of mine. I never really thought about it that way, although I should have. How do u think of these things. For someone the age of 20, u really got it together. I wish i was as much as u are. I grew up with my Mom for most of my life till she got abusive to me. I learned alot about women from her since she was mostly single. But there are times that it seems like I never win, Like I don't even know them(women). But maybe I shouldn't since I'm only 19. Is it posible that at the age of 10(or around that age) that I wasn't suposed to know what i did? Ok, enough about me.

Being "too nice" tends to put you out in the open for more potential to be hurt deeply. However, you have got to be willing to take that chance if you want to reap the benefits of a truly meaningful relationship. What do you and your lover have to gain from holding back and putting up protective walls?

I think I'd rather be hurt a 100 times over just to find the right one, then to never find her.

If I could pick my life, Mr 5 0 would be my Dad, Mustangmom2k my Mom(nothing aginst my parents), and Mustangbelle306 as my really good friend(or more). Only then would I ever need to know every answer, or every answer to a problem I had. I love this site, for that it's just about this way. I'm away from home, but this site makes me feel like I'm not.