"Your too nice" Is this BAD to be these days?

[1969Mach1]

What a thread, quite a long one but it explains how I feel on life.

It feels quite reassuring that others feel the same way. Belle, like said, by the other 15 guys dr's really hard to find that nice girl.

My g/f told me I'm too nice. I said: "You want me to be a jerk?" and she said: "Yes". I told her; "Well I can't do it cause this is who I am". She finally relished what she had but I know she still feels the same way. Her best friend (a guy, even though I thought I was her best friend) he is a total *** hole. I mean like I've seen some pricks in my life but this guy takes the cake; he hates me cause I like my car. I think anyone can stand up for me on this one, we love our cars, and it’s a hobby, something we enjoy and can look back and be proud.

But she seems to 'like' him but she complains about how he is mean and a jerk but she still talks to him and still friends with him. I've yet to understand how this is. I know he is going to be the reason our relationship isn't going to work. I do whatever it takes to keep us together. I bring her gifts when we fight (even though I do nothing to provoke this fight) but I've yet to understand girls who like this so called thugs.

I don't know if this is normal or I'm being selfish or narrow minded but I look for a girl that is pretty much exactly like me (in a girl way) like someone that will appreciate what I do for them, me always being there for them, always caring. The way our society is growing up divorces are going to happen to everyone it seems.

I get made fun of by people cause they find it funny that I do stuff for my g/f, and go out with her. There like: You're whipped! I don't see it as being whipped, I see it as something I enjoy doing. I do stuff with my g/f cause I like to. And usually end up with the kick in the *** in the end. I don't think I'll ever understand woman, well a good part of them. I suppose I will never give up but every girl I see makes me wonder what kind of a girl she is.

A tip I've learned,
Make a girl your friend before you go out with her. This can save a broken heart. If you get to know the girl first and understand her, you're more likely going to see how your relationship will work.

And to all the nice guys; don't get discouraged. There are still nice girls out there; it's just a fight for them these days.

Take Care All,