"Your too nice" Is this BAD to be these days?

[mustangman65_79]

U want to know something weird. Just as this post loaded up on my comp, my CD player started playing "Nice Guys Finish Last" By Green Day. I just had to laugh.

Make a girl your friend before you go out with her. This can save a broken heart. If you get to know the girl first and understand her, you're more likely going to see how your relationship will work.

I agree. There is a girl back home whom I wish I was with right now. We have been friends for over four years now. We have had fights(yelling type) but have always gone back to being friends. We have never gone out before and have always regrated it. She see things the same way I do. We are also totally into each other.

Before I went to basic, I told her that she could see other guys and it woundn't bother me. I was going by that idea that if u let something go, and it comes back, then they do love u. Sure enough, when I came back from basic and tech school, we came back to each other.

I told her the same thing when I moved down here to Cali; and she hasn't went out with a guy yet. We talk every week for about an hour at a time. She told me a long time ago to go out and get a G/F because she didn't want me to be lonely. I have tried to do so, but I can't find anyone. The only times I can find someone that seems to like me, I always compare them with her. I know this is a big Mistake. It's a big no no, but I do it anyway. But it doesn't matter because I always get the "your too nice" thing.

Get this, on my birthday, she told my friend to go out and get me a stripper;SHE SAID THIS!

Also, she told me to go out and get my Bronco, good choice, I wanted it too. When I got my '66 Mustang, she wants nothing more then to see me with it. She loves it and has never even seen it yet. She keeps saying its going to be hers,ya right.

I only wish she was out of school. For u see, she is only 16, soon to be 17. I'm 19, so it's not much of an age diff.

What do u think, if I can get her down here, is she a keeper?

I'll always keep looking because u never know.