"Your too nice" Is this BAD to be these days?

[SilverWing]

Originally posted by Mustanguy

I guess I dunno if I should take this as a compliment or not

Take it as a compliment because being a nice guy is a GOOD thing, even if some people don't realize it.

The way I see it is, be yourself and someday you'll find someone who really appreciates it. Believe me, there are girls out there who are looking for those nice guys and are starting to believe they're a dying breed!

Aside though, I can relate a little to how you feel. I'm a "nice" person and go out of my way in all of my friendships and relationships and yet I'm the one who's always getting hurt or passed over or ignored, etc. I let it harden me for awhile, but I've finally realized that I don't need to be friends with people who won't be the type of friend to me as I am to them.

So basically, just keep doing what you're doing - obviously your friend sees you're a kind, genuine person. Stay that way! At some point you're going to run into a woman that loves you for it.