Is it wrong not to take your gf/bf to a party?

[Mr 5 0]

Stang_Crazy:

Well now it's a totally different situation from the one you originally presented. Very different.

You say that you've given this insecure teen-age girl your constant full-time attention over the past two years but it cost you other friendships and you resent it. Oh, and she cheats on you.

Hmmmm. Where to start?

This girl sounds like a poor choice for a continued relationship. The repeated cheating on her part would be a guaranteed reason for me to say 'good-bye' since I was never very good at being used.

Even without that 800 pound gorilla factored in to the situation her insecurity is going to become a constant problem for you both, as you already can see. Jealousy and mistrust don't make a relationship grow, much less thrive.

Judging by what you're stated here I can't see what this relationship really has to recommend it unless it's a pure sexual thing, which I assume it isn't as you've never mentioned that aspect.

At 21, it would seem to be time for you to move on and find someone at least faithful to you and hopefully mature and self-confident enough to be a partner and a friend; not some insecure, needy teen-age cheater who demands constant attention and lays down guilt trips when you leave her for an evening.

I bet you can do better; I would certainly try.