Is it wrong not to take your gf/bf to a party?

[Topless In Texas]

On the other hand....I"m 36. Recently single - after 15 years.

Sometimes its better to be single and happy then to stay in an unhappy relationship. I was 21 when I moved in with and then married the 'love of my life' at 22. Life is unpredictable, and NOTHING is certain, or forever....and single or married can't be stereotyped by what is seen on TV...that's not real life. And its not always the men that are unhappy in their relationships.

I agree w/ Red514LX completetely!!!
You have a LOT of wisdom for your age!! You're lucky to have the great relationship you have, but yet you can see the good points of being 'single' too! To me, that shows a lot of maturity - to be able to see the positive of both situations!
Neither is right - or wrong - all that matters is that one is TRULY HAPPY with where they are in their life, and I can say that the last year for me has been one of my happiest in a LONG time!!

Its a HUGE decision to make. But, in the long run you have to look out for yourself and do what makes you happy. There is nothing harder than being in an unhappy relationship.

Stang Crazy: You do what you feel like YOU need to do to make YOU feel good about yourself and your situation again...and only YOU can decide that. All we can do is give you input based on our own expieriences.....and everyones expieriences are TOTALLY different because of our ages, and our expieriences in life! Hopefully you can take bits and pieces of eveyone's post's and apply them to your situation, to help you realize where you want to be!!!

Good luck to ya! Topless

BTW: everyone here has great input...lets you see how many different types of situations there are and how others deal w/ them. This is a good thread.