Problems with friends girl.....

[Mr 5 0]

Nathan:

Good post re: women who crave attention and encourage guys only to drop them when they get the attention and flattery they seek, then go back to the guy who won't play the game with them. It's an old story and unfortunately keeps being played out every new generation, I guess.

Sorry you were a victim but although pony_ power_90 has decided to cool it, your account still has value as a warning - to those who will take it.

To be fair, guys play the same game, in a slightly different manner. Dating and romancing a girl until she gets ga-ga for him (often having sex with him to 'prove' her affections) , then abruptly dropping her because she's 'crowding him' or some other lame excuse.

Two people in a relationship, serious or casual, balancing each others needs and wants while remaining honest and sincere is almost impossible so some game-playing is probably inevitable but when you intentionally date and drop people just to serve your own ego (male or female) or reassure yourself that you're attractive or whatever, it's cruel and the fact that many do this on a regular basis doesn't make it right.

All you can do is keep your self-respect (and respect others). know yourself; what you need and want and not lose sight of that while getting involved in the games people play.

It's a jungle out there.