Vin Diesel

[jj_jonathon]

Originally posted by StreetPony


that was but one example of a lifetime of experiences that convinces me he was born gay. you say that you dont believe in "fate" or not having a choice about hings....so according to that logic you could make yourself enjoy being with a man? i sure couldnt....i was born heterosexual and as such i dont have choice in it. im glad because i would hate to miss out on the sensual tenderness of a woman.....but the point remains.

but i also believe that you are affected by everything that happens to you...you and your brother have not experienced the same things...my younger brother and i were different by the age of 7 or 8...cuz he was affected by our moving around a lot more cuz of the grades he was in, he he was a little slower in learning and so developed into a bit more of a pain in the ***, and hung out with the wrong kids, etc...took some drastic changes from my parents to straighten him....hes the one out of the 3 that is like that....so maybe something happened in school along the way...he was made fun of for liking the WW costume more and so he was then stereotyped as "gay" by the kids...who knows...its years of activity that forms your life...

i certainly couldnt enojy the company of a man sexually...but i believe thats because its how we were raised...if you were raised in a world where homosexuality was most common (like heterosexuality now) then we would probably both be gay...but we were formed by our society...like i said...i try not to believe in fate...id rather believe that I AM making decisions that affect me...not that there is a greater force compelling me, or that it was chosen before i did it....at any time before an "exit" you can take it...its up to you if you want that path...if this was a homosexual world your brother might be heterosexual...who knows...lol...remember im not saying your views are wrong, just that i chose to live my life with different beliefs....