starter stay engaged 3 secs too long

[drudis]

Basically yes, EVERYTHING goes on the "input" side of the relay. For me, it was the further back side (toward driver), versus the "output" (activated) side which is closer to the headlights. On the 'output" side, you ONLY have the LITTLE WIRE.

Again, EVERYTHING (ALL THE WIRES) goes on the "R" ("R"elay) side of the solenoid, and the little wire ONLY goes on the "y" (rela"Y") side, as in the diagram.