After 4.5years she left me with no notice...

[Ieatcamaros]

a man once told me find someone that worshipes the ground you walk on

That is exactly what I did. Me and my wife will be married 4 years in July. We are each others best friend. I can talk to her about anything and everything, no matter the time. And likewise for her. We spend time together and we do our own thing. And she LOVES mustangs. Only because I got her into them. She don't bitch when I spend all weekend working on my cars. Even though I spend 85% of my time with the cars.

I had the same thing happen to me as skyman. I feel for you. I was dating this girl for just a little over a year and she throws the marriage shit at me. I was only 18. I was like "Hell no". Typical 18 year old. Only I didn't say it like that. The chemisty between us just wasn't there for me. I mean it was there, but I had some doubts about a few things. Kinda hard to explain. She left and I never looked back. Now she has been married and divorced. I forgot to mention she was 18 too. Just as mr 5.0 said, teenagers don't make the best marriage partners. I totally agree on that. Especially when there is a baby in the mix.

My advice is the same as everyone else. You know where your heart is. You know how she feels about you too. If it takes getting married to her to keep her, it is not meant to be. If she really loves you, she should be patient. But she also needs to know that you aren't gong anywhere either. A lot of women are insecure and you have to make them feel secure. No offense to women, that's just been my experience. My .02. Hope it helps.