After 4.5years she left me with no notice...

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Hey Sky

I know I'm a little late with the comments and such, but better late then never. I'm 23 as well and just like you I've just gone through the same thing. My now ex-g/f and I were engaged and soon after we were engaged she decided that she wanted to "be alone" which really turned out to be that she wanted to go date some other guy. Which i wasn't too impressed about, but not much I could do about it. Its been 2 months now, and i can say those first few weeks were absolutely the hardest to deal with. Just stick with it and if you've got a few GOOD guy friends they'll stick with ya and help you through this, I know my boyz did for me.

But I commend you with your decision to not go back with her right away and to keep on your own and work on yourself and let her find herself. I know that hurts alot and takes alot of guts to do so props to ya on that.

I know you'll find some other girls, not necessarily right away but eventually, that will absolutely blow your mind (no pun intended). But above all else, go out have some fun and do whatever it takes to keep your mind occupied. Workin on the car does wonders, I did more work on my Stang in 1 week then I did in 3 months after me and my ex broke up.

But good luck to ya, and like everyone else if ya ever need someone to talk to I'm here, so just gimme a hollar.