Before I marry

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Originally Posted by rwhite65

If a pre-nup will help me with my security "should" the marriage fail, so be it.

If you need security "incase" the marriage fails, aren't you setting it up for failure by doing that? Aren't you doubting your decision?? The thought of it not working and needing security to fall back on is a recipie for faliure before the committment is even made. Again just my opinion...maybe I have an old time way of thinking