Father pushes me aside..Never wants to see me again

Fox Body · 04-01-2001, 11:53 AM

Sorry to here that Mustanguy. Like others said, give it some time (about a week w/o any contact) and you should initiate contact (just don't wait for him to do it--pride could make it last too long). I'm sure both of you need to apologize, but when you talk to him again, do it even if he doesn't.

This is not some boyfriend/gr relationship. This is your dad and life is too short to screw around with arguments b/t loved ones. Sometimes, when people try to make up, an argument starts again. Don't let this happen b/c it takes 2 people to argue. Just make sure you're always the good guy in the situation and don't react to any attempts he makes to provoke you. Utilize self-control. Remember he is still your father.

From here, I can't do much for you. But I can give advice and keep you in my prayers.

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'79 Mustang Coup
4" Cowl
Weld wheels (15x6;15x8)
Stock 5.8L
C4 w/ shift kit
1.5" MAC full length headers
Holley 750 CFM
Edelbrock intake
2.5" Off road H-pipe, 2-chamber Flowmasters
8.8" Rear end w/ 3.55 gears (Now that's more like it!!)

Front: 225/60/15 Rear: 255/60/15 Eagle GT II
14 x 4” K&N air filter (getting the Xtreme setup soon)

"Red, thou art my companion. Hasten now your quickened metamorphosis to Green that I may conquer all who dare abide there beside me. May they be left thither behind burnt black." ---Fox Body

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04-01-2001, 11:53 AM	#11
Fox Body Mustang Maniac Join Date: Sep 2000 Location: GA, U.S.A Posts: 2,266	Sorry to here that Mustanguy. Like others said, give it some time (about a week w/o any contact) and you should initiate contact (just don't wait for him to do it--pride could make it last too long). I'm sure both of you need to apologize, but when you talk to him again, do it even if he doesn't. This is not some boyfriend/gr relationship. This is your dad and life is too short to screw around with arguments b/t loved ones. Sometimes, when people try to make up, an argument starts again. Don't let this happen b/c it takes 2 people to argue. Just make sure you're always the good guy in the situation and don't react to any attempts he makes to provoke you. Utilize self-control. Remember he is still your father. From here, I can't do much for you. But I can give advice and keep you in my prayers. ------------------------------- '79 Mustang Coup 4" Cowl Weld wheels (15x6;15x8) Stock 5.8L C4 w/ shift kit 1.5" MAC full length headers Holley 750 CFM Edelbrock intake 2.5" Off road H-pipe, 2-chamber Flowmasters 8.8" Rear end w/ 3.55 gears (Now that's more like it!!) Front: 225/60/15 Rear: 255/60/15 Eagle GT II 14 x 4” K&N air filter (getting the Xtreme setup soon) "Red, thou art my companion. Hasten now your quickened metamorphosis to Green that I may conquer all who dare abide there beside me. May they be left thither behind burnt black." ---Fox Body