GIRLFRIEND = problems (kinda long)

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quick89gt,
I too have been in bad situations in the past. I think that everyone has touched on some of these subjects very well, so I won't contribute to some of them. I do want to say something that has helped me in my short marriage so far. Communication. Communication is so important. You mentioned that "...she never wants to talk about it or problems..." this should scare you, my friend! The one thing that I have learned in my year and a half of marriage is that no matter what the problem, communication can either fix it or make it a hell of a lot better to live with. Open communication should be something that you look for in all your relationships. Well, you won't have to look, you just know (I know, it sounds stupid, who "just knows" anything? But trust me you will know)

My advice would be to walk away, an use this as a learning experience, always remember to learn from these things. Keeping that in mind has kept me sane through several hard times with girls.

Best of Luck.