Update: Remember when she left me after 4.5 years? well....

[silver_pilate]

Sky,

Tell her what you just told us. Tell her that if she's really serious about wanting to get back with you to just lay off. Like you said, you don't want to start back up with her right now, you're enjoying where you are, and you sure don't need the nagging or the pressure. Tell her to stow it and hold it. If in 6 months or 2 years you, for whatever reason, decide to give her another go, then see where she's at.

Give her the old, "If you really love 'em you gotta let 'em go" shpeal.

But keep in mind, as the Propellerheads say, "...it's all a bunch of history repeating."

--nathan